Welcome to Red Flags 101

The #1 course for young adults & communities on Red Flags & Boundary Setting

Worldwide, violence against women causes more deaths and disabilities among women aged 15 to 44 than cancer, malaria, traffic accidents, and war.

Do you & your loved ones know how to spot the red flags of abusive relationships BEFORE they turn physical?

Hi, I’m Jas Rawlinson.

As an award-winning domestic violence prevention speaker, survivor, author, and advocate with over 13 years’ experience, my aim is to empower teens, parents, survivors and communities to set unapologetic boundaries, and become experts in identifying relationship red flags before they turn physical.

And that’s why I developed ‘Red Flags 101’ — a powerful short course designed for workplaces, organisations, and anyone working with vulnerable communities.

Introducing ‘Red Flags 101’

A 5-video course from award-winning speaker Jas Rawlinson, designed to empower parents, teens, teachers & community members about boundary setting & relationship red flags

Over 5 easy to follow video lessons, you’ll learn:

Module 1 (Videos 1-4): Understanding the 3 most common red flags of abusive friendships and relationships

  • Learn how to become a detective in spotting emotional abuse techniques such as gaslighting and coercive control

  • Understand the difference between romance vs love bombing

  • Use real life celebrity relationship examples as conversation-starters with your loved ones

Module 2 (Video 5): Setting strong and unapologetic boundaries

  • learn how to create simple boundaries that you can set in the workplace, friendships and relationships

  • understand that setting boundaries makes you a Boss not a B*tch

  • ease anxiety by knowing exactly how to say No and hold your boundaries (without over-explaining or being mean)

"Domestic violence is a daunting but essential topic to discuss with young people.

Our students (Year 11 and 12) were very engaged throughout Jas’ whole presentation…and the information she included was highly current, helpful and informative. Jas was very professional and struck just the right balance between presenting on confronting topics but with a sensitive and measured delivery.”

 Marty Begbie, Head of Year 11 – Indooroopilly State High (QLD)

Have you seen the following #RedFlags?

  • Your daughter is becoming more withdrawn and has to answer to her partner for everything she does, says, or wears — but whatever she does it’s never enough

  • Your son has started giving his girlfriend access to all his social media accounts

  • One of your coworkers isn’t allowed to have their own bank account and has to ask their partner for money

  • Someone in your life is constantly overstepping your boundaries, but when you speak up they tell you it ‘never happened,’ and you’re ‘overreacting’ and ‘making it up.’

Whether it’s an intimate relationship or a friendship…

…domestic violence looks different for every individual. But there are 3 red flags that often occur right before abuse escalates.

As parents, carers, or concerned aunties and uncles, we want our youth to know the signs of abuse before it becomes physical…or something much worse.

Love for Jas Rawlinson’s work

  • "We are very grateful to Jas for sharing her story and time with us, and giving us her insights into the red flags of DV/IPV. The information Jas shared not only helps our staff in their work and interactions with people we come into contact with in our professions, but also for others that we know." 

    VERINA - Health in Abundance Medical Practice

  • "We were thrilled to have Jas onsite recently to speak to our entire high school. Students learnt about the red flags of unhealthy relationships, boundary-setting, and the power of advocacy as a pathway for discovering your purpose.  It was a thoroughly engaged presentation on a vitally important topic."  

    MARK WILLIAMS - Nambucca Valley Christian High

  • "Through her life experience vignettes, I learned so much more about sexual exploitation and abuse - and I say that as someone who works on these issues full time!"

    DAWN HAWKINS - CEO of National Center on Sexual Exploitation

Whether you’re a parent, teen, concerned community member, or survivor, this course is one of the best investments you’ll make.

Get started today — one payment of $99 AUD.

“Australia has a shameful epidemic of domestic and sexual violence, and it’s imperative that every teen knows how to identify the red flags of abuse before they escalate further. We have to break these cycles as early as possible, and it starts with empowering our youth.”